Preparing for your Session

Begin thinking about your passed loved one(s): Pull out photos and put them where you can see them every day so that you are connecting with them visually, emotionally and mentally.

Speak to them: Let them know how excited you are to be connecting with them this week and maybe ask them to bring up a certain memory, heirloom, person, phrase, word or inside joke to validate that they truly are with you during the reading. Try for something only known to you, something I would only know if spirit shares it with me to share with you. 

Locate the Zoom link provided in the email: A computer is recommended but cell phone will work just fine.

Find a quiet space and make yourself comfortable (i.e: light a candle): Be sure only the person who needs the reading is in the room as to not bring in spirit or energy for anyone else during your session.

Set your intention: Before your reading, set your intention and think about what you hope to gain from the experience. If you want, you can speak your intention out loud. 

Be open-minded: Approach the reading with an open mind and be willing to receive messages from your loved one(s). 

Before your reading: Take a deep breath and spend 10-20 minutes meditating or being still to think about who you’d like to have come through. In your mind, say their name over and over while picturing them. Remember a favorite memory or what it felt like to get a hug from this person. Focus your mental energy on calling this person to the forefront of your thoughts.

Try not to give too much away: It is up to me to confirm my connection to Spirit and relay their messages to you in a way you can understand them. I will ask you to validate information that comes from spirit but please save your questions until I’ve finished delivering messages to you.

Take notes: Take notes during your reading so that you can refer back to them later. 

Ask questions: If you have questions for your loved one, don't be afraid to ask the medium to relay them. 

Trust the process: Trust that the messages you receive are coming from your loved one and that they have your best interests at heart

When dealing with Spirit we use a lot of energy. One way to release that energy is to have a good cry after your session. It is common to dream about them the nights following a reading. (It’s all that residual energy!)

Sometimes during a session your mind goes blank and some information from Spirit may not make sense to you until hours or days later. Email me and let me know if you have an “oh wow” moment as time goes by and you suddenly understand what spirit meant.

I would love to hear about your experience and if you feel comfortable, I’d appreciate a review of how you feel your reading went. If you can email me a review I can post it online for others to read.